What is it that I wish for..?

On my 22nd birthday, what is it that I wish for?
I absolutely wish for nothing...

Laugh, even when you feel too sick or too worn out or tired. Smile, even when you're trying not to cry & the tears are blurring your vision. Sing, even when people stare at you & tell you that your voice is crappy. Trust, even when your heart begs you not to. Twirl, even when mind makes no sense of what you see. Frolic, even when you are made fun of. Sleep, even when you're afraid of what the dream might bring. Run, even when it feels like you can't move anymore. And always remember, even when the memories pinch your heart. Because the pain of all your experience is what makes you the happy person you are now. And without your experience you are an empty page, a blank notebook, a missing lyrics.. What makes you brave is you willingness to live through your terrible life & hold your head up high the next day. So, don't live in fear.. Because you are stronger now, after all the crap that happened, than you ever were back before it started...

What feels like a painful loss now will become something beautiful later on....

Only those who love themselves can love other. Only people who claim their own voice can hear the true song of another. When we learn to love ourselves before loving others, we will out stand in loving others. When we understand ourselves so perfectly & have a clear image about who we are & what we are to be, only then we will know how to understand others in a flawless way. Whenever we listen to ourselves, we will learn how to listen to others. Accepting ourselves will lead to accepting others. It is a complicated process though.. We will come to a deep understanding of ourselves only when we are in our deepest sadness or despair.. At the very moment that we emerge from this sadness into happiness without the need of anyone.. We will be able to fully & completely comprehend who we are.. Thus, easily accessing others' minds. Things may get worse before they get better, but they'll only get better if you let them get worse! There are times, at a certain period in ones life, when a person feels that they grew up the most. Through experiments of course! It could be a bad break-up, death of loved ones, betrayals etc. In such difficult times, we get to know ourselves better.. We analyze & interpret better.. We conclude in a much different way.. We never came to the world with an instruction book.. Along the way, through experiences we start writing our own instruction book inside our souls & take it everywhere with us to guide us through this life.. Just be sure that those instructions will never come to life if we aren't able to embrace what comes across our path.. Good or bad.. Everything in this life is for a cause.. Nothing just happens.. Unless we learn how accept the good & the bad equally.. Only then we will be able to lead a happy life..