To me, the hardest part of growing up is that our standards grow up as well. We suddenly refuse to settle for what is less & cease settling for what we used to settle for, long time ago being just small kids!
Thing is, sometimes we lose people along the way, people we thought were our friends. With years we think that we lost ourselves, but that's just a part of the process. The process of GROWING UP! We learn from our mistakes, knock-downs teach us to be tough. We realize that we lost our innocence & purity of our mind & soul. At a certain point we stop being so naïve, we quit expecting from people, we quit trusting.. Not only people but sometimes ourselves as well! No one stays innocent, no one stops growing.. The clock is always on the move & as long as that is happening we won't stop hustling as well. I don't think people change from the blue.. It's just people grow up. We start loving things we hated all along & we might hate things that we have always loved!
When we are growing up, our bodies grow, our minds grow, our souls grow! With time we will find that we are a whole lot different person than who we used to be 10 years ago. WE DID NOT CHANGE! Many people would accuse us of changing but this is called growing up. In life there's nothing fixed, nothing is for sure. It's just like math or physics, theories are hypothetical & are able to be edited. Every problem has several solutions, some are easier than others, some are more logical than others but, with time these very solutions might not solve the same problem anymore. This solution might have had a mistake in the first place & could be solved in a totally different way. Since, that solution might have undergone several corrections & changes, it will not work anymore. So, this is why I never promise thing I'm not sure of.. I never promise "I will love you forever" or anything like that because I'm not sure what would I feel in the future & how would I address my emotions.. I'm not a psychic I can't be sure of what will happen.
The only thing that is really disturbing me at the moment, is knowing that one day I will let go of many things that I loved dearly because they won't matter to me as much. But then again, as I said.. Future in predictable & I shall only live the moment.. What shall happens will happen & when it does, I will embrace it with an open heart...
Thing is, sometimes we lose people along the way, people we thought were our friends. With years we think that we lost ourselves, but that's just a part of the process. The process of GROWING UP! We learn from our mistakes, knock-downs teach us to be tough. We realize that we lost our innocence & purity of our mind & soul. At a certain point we stop being so naïve, we quit expecting from people, we quit trusting.. Not only people but sometimes ourselves as well! No one stays innocent, no one stops growing.. The clock is always on the move & as long as that is happening we won't stop hustling as well. I don't think people change from the blue.. It's just people grow up. We start loving things we hated all along & we might hate things that we have always loved!
When we are growing up, our bodies grow, our minds grow, our souls grow! With time we will find that we are a whole lot different person than who we used to be 10 years ago. WE DID NOT CHANGE! Many people would accuse us of changing but this is called growing up. In life there's nothing fixed, nothing is for sure. It's just like math or physics, theories are hypothetical & are able to be edited. Every problem has several solutions, some are easier than others, some are more logical than others but, with time these very solutions might not solve the same problem anymore. This solution might have had a mistake in the first place & could be solved in a totally different way. Since, that solution might have undergone several corrections & changes, it will not work anymore. So, this is why I never promise thing I'm not sure of.. I never promise "I will love you forever" or anything like that because I'm not sure what would I feel in the future & how would I address my emotions.. I'm not a psychic I can't be sure of what will happen.
The only thing that is really disturbing me at the moment, is knowing that one day I will let go of many things that I loved dearly because they won't matter to me as much. But then again, as I said.. Future in predictable & I shall only live the moment.. What shall happens will happen & when it does, I will embrace it with an open heart...
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